Books as Frameworks: Mixed Advice
Table of Contents
Not Taught (Jim Keenan)
- Reach
- Brand You
- Create Content
- Change
- Have the Balls to Make It Happen
- Think
- Learn How to Sell
- Screw Your Degree
- Experience versus Expertise
- Time versus Results
- Don’t Be Boring
- Have Fun. Be Happy
- Deliberate Learning
- Bonus Skill: Be the Best You Can Be
- WTF, Now What?
Principles (Ray Dalio)
Life Principles
- Embrace Reality and Deal with It
- Use the 5-Step Process to Get What You Want Out of Life
- Be Radically Open-Minded
- Understand That People Are Wired Very Differently
- Learn How to Make Decisions Effectively
Work Principles
To Get the Culture Right
- Trust In Radical Truth and Radical Transparency
- Cultivate Meaningful Work and Meaningful Relationships
- Create a Culture In Which It Is Okay to Make Mistakes and Unacceptable Not to Learn from Them
- Get and Stay In Sync
- Believability Weight Your Decision Making
- Recognize How to Get Beyond Disagreements
To Get the People Right
- Remember That the WHO Is More Important than the WHAT
- Hire Right, Because the Penalties for Hiring Wrong Are Huge
- Constantly Train, Test, Evaluate, and Sort People
To Build and Evolve Your Machine
- Manage as Someone Operating a Machine to Achieve a Goal
- Perceive and Don’t Tolerate Problems
- Diagnose Problems to Get at Their Root Causes
- Design Improvements to Your Machine to Get Around Your Problems
- Do What You Set Out to Do
- Use Tools and Protocols to Shape How Work Is Done
- And for Heaven’s Sake, Don’t Overlook Governance!
Simple Secrets for Becoming Healthy, Wealthy, and Wise (David Niven)
January
- Motivation Beats Everything
- Be Happy to Succeed
- Give Yourself Time
- Creativity Comes from Within
- The Mundane Is Heroic
- Never Give Up
- See Possibilities Where Others See Obstacles
- The Quest for a Perfect Body Is Doomed
- Don’t Let Your First Idea Be Your Only Idea
- What You Do Matters
- There Are Second Chances
- Wonder
- Volunteer for Yourself
- Use a Plan, Not a Piecemeal Approach
- You Have Nothing to Envy in Your Partner
- Resist the Urge to Be Average
- Too Much of a Good Thing Is Too Much
- It’s Never Just One Thing
- Change Is Possible, Not Easy
- Know Your Health
- It’s Not How Hard You Try
- You Can’t Force Yourself to Like Broccoli
- The Past Is Not the Future
- Competence Starts with Feeling Competent
- We’re Too Good at Imagining the Worst-Case Scenario
- Set Rules for Conflict in Your Relationship
- Give Yourself the Best Chance to Eat Well
- You Are Never Too Old to Improve Your Habits
- A Victory at All Costs Is Not a Victory
- You Have to Have Art
- Accomplish Something Every Day
February
- You Must Approve of Yourself
- Healthy Living Is an Attitude
- Write Down the Directions
- It’s the Little Things That Matter the Most
- Couch Time Affects Body and Mind
- Winners Are Made, Not Born
- See the Love Around You
- The Cold Doesn’t Give You a Cold
- Anticipate Irrationality
- Attitude Triumphs over Outcome
- The Best Defense Is to Listen
- Always Being Right Is Wrong for Your Health
- How We See the World Is More Important Than How the World Is
- Express Your Love
- Eat Your Spinach
- Don’t Be Bound by Tradition
- Seek Input from Your Opposites
- Avoid Tanning Beds
- Know What Makes You Happy and What Makes You Sad
- Wipe, Don’t Blow
- Do Things in Order
- Avoid Internet Takeover
- You Can Worry Your Health Away
- Seek Harmony in Your Life
- Take Small Victories
- There’s Never Been a Better Time
March
- Think in Concrete Terms
- Slow Music for Dinner
- A Relationship Requires Two Equals
- Cleaning Isn’t Clean
- Get Experience Any Way You Can
- Cultivate a Common Interest
- Health Is Mental and Physical
- Embrace Challenges
- Look Up, Literally
- Tell Your Family Story
- Self-Motivation Works Once
- There Are No Mind Readers
- Do What You Say You Are Going to Do
- Put Stuff in Its Place
- History Isn’t Everything
- There’s No Point to Putting on a Show
- Speak Slowly
- Pursue What You Need Forever, Not What You Want Today
- Don’t Buy the Fountain of Youth
- Make Your Mark on the Next Generation
- Do One Thing at a Time
- Remember Who You Are and Where You Are
- Relationships Are Not Random
- Emergencies Can’t Wait
- Treat the Disease, Not the Symptom
- Help the Next Person Who Needs Some Minor Assistance
- Negotiate with Confidence, or Don’t
- Your Surroundings Will Affect Your Health
April
- Overcome the Culture of Failure
- Play the Odds
- Decide Whether You Want to Win or Be Happy
- Travel the Stable Road
- Mold Is Everywhere - Relax
- The Most Time Is Not the Best Time
- The Past Is Not the Future
- Look on the Bright Side
- Avoid Generational Competition
- Drink Less
- Try Something New
- Remember the Task, Forget the Rankings
- Find a Community That Fits Your Family
- Turn Off the TV
- Honor Your Spiritual Beliefs
- Drink Grape Juice
- Get a Good Night’s Sleep
- Drive Safely When It’s Safe
- Seek a Tall Plateau, Not the Peak
- A Sense of Humor Helps
- Avoid the Second-Guess Paralysis
- Eat Less, but Eat Often
- See Around Career Roadblocks
- Be Engaged to Reality
- You Don’t Have to Get Straight A’s Anymore
- Write Down Your Thoughts
- Fitness Is Free
- There’s No Need to Hurry
- Notice Patterns
May
- Get Out of the Car
- It’s Always a Choice
- It’s Less What Happened Than What Happened Next
- Forgiveness Helps You Heal
- There Is Plenty of Time
- Do Not Go to War with Bacteria
- Be Open
- Home Means More Than Work to Your Health
- Balance Depends on Which Way You Lean
- Buy Fun, Not Stuff
- Happy Looks for Happy
- Ask Whether a Medicine Is Right for You
- Beware of Fairy Tales
- Lessons Can’t Threaten
- Stay in Control
- Use the Stairs
- The Future Matters More Than the Past
- Listen to Your Favorite Music
- Separate Hype from Substance
- It Starts and Ends with You
- See the Big Picture
- Make Your Work a Calling
- Stretch
- You Need to Know More Than Just How Talented You Are
- Ask Where Your Water Comes From
- You Don’t Have to See Eye to Eye on Everything
- Have a Tomato Any Way You Like
- Volunteer to Achieve
- It Doesn’t Matter Who Earns the Money
June
- Self-Protection Prevents Self-Reflection
- Ambivalence Is a Negative
- Let Your Stress Out
- Tomorrow Will Be a Better Day (but How Exactly?)
- There’s No Better Time to Be Sick
- A Relationship Starts with Yourself
- Breathe Right
- Use Your Own Self-Interest
- Doing Nothing Is Rarely a Solution
- Accept Yourself - Unconditionally
- Second-Hand Smoke Is Optional
- Listening Is More Than Not Talking
- You’ll Get Knocked Down and Then Get Back Up
- Keep Your Fears in Line
- Television and Eating Should Not Go Together
- Think of Your Own Ideal
- Communicate on Your Listeners’ Terms
- Talk to Your Pharmacist
- Let Go of the Burden of Pain
- Boredom Is the Enemy
- Share Housework
- Role Models Are Not One Size Fits All
- The Mirror Will Be Kinder
- Common Chores Can Be Dangerous
- Foundations Are Created in the Beginning
- Get Away from It All
- Study Your Sports Drink
- Make Change Count
July
- The Best Life Needs No Trophy
- Control Your Health
- Transitions Can Be Both Happy and Sad
- Stay Safe in the Sun
- Leadership Is Contagious
- Don’t Romanticize the Past
- Laughter Really Is Medicine
- View Your Life As a Choice
- Life Is Not a Zero-Sum Game
- Don’t Confuse Stuff with Success
- Respond to Stress
- Have an Orange
- Share the Praise and Share in the Blame
- Embrace Work - It May Have to Last Forever
- Don’t Gamble Your Future
- Combinations Matter
- Resolve to Pursue Resolution
- Limit Your Exposure to Pesticides
- Even in a Relationship, You Are Still an Individual
- Want Support? Deserve It
- Make “Should” and “Want” the Same Thing
- The Fun Is Not Over
- Build Your Energy Level Gradually
- Meaningful Commitment Is Mutual Commitment
- You Will Give Up Faster If You’re Not in Control
- Anything Beats Boredom
- Most People Are Sensitive to Whitening Teeth
- Like the Way You Look
- Remember, Ginkgo Biloba Won’t Help You Remember
- Develop a Healthy Calm
- Learn from Losses
August
- See the Beauty Around You
- Whet Your Appetite for Success
- Write Through Pain
- To Find a Better Way, Look Where You’ve Been
- Tell Clean Jokes
- Turn Off the TV
- Don’t Bring Your Job Home with You
- Practice Maintenance for Life
- Don’t Pack Like a Mule
- Look for Value
- Never Trade Your Morals for Your Goals
- Don’t Let Irritation Be Louder Than Joy
- Sleep Well
- Recognize the Value of Shared Values
- Get Your Motivation Where You Can Find It
- Have Some Tea with Your Remodeling
- We Assume Similar Preferences
- Memories Are Not Lost
- Nobody Wins Without a Loser
- If You’re Not Sure, Guess Positively
- Understand What You’re Looking For
- See Your Goals
- Short-Term Stress Is Healthy
- Prepare for Milestones
- Your Health Isn’t Just About You
- Don’t Want Everything
- Rest Up - This Is Going to Take Some Effort
- Your Lives Must Fit Together
- Find a Physician You Like
- Don’t Let Secrets Eat You Up
- Remember the Difference Between You and Everybody Else
September
- Be an Expert
- Root for the Home Team
- The Future Can Be Brighter Than the Past
- Religion Can Help Ease Your Burden
- Regrets Hold Us Back
- Your Teeth Are More Than Something to Chew On
- Define What You Need
- You Can’t Be Persistent Without Perspective
- You’ll Need Some Relationship Friends
- Your Goals Are a Living Thing
- Limit Yourself to Thinking About One Subject As You Go to Sleep
- Express Yourself in What You Do
- Hostility Hurts You
- Changing Jobs Doesn’t Change You
- Share What You Know
- Home Is Where Accidents Happen
- Take Off Your Blinders
- Smell Healthy
- Music Can Bring Us Together
- You Are Not in This Alone
- Value the Multiple Uses of Aspirin
- Make Your Decisions for Positive Reasons
- Think About Who You Ought to Be
- Noise Matters
- Work on Your Own Terms
- Never Let Faults Stand for the Whole
- Care
October
- If You Don’t Believe, No One Else Will
- Don’t Let Negativity Build
- See a New Way
- Remember the Drugs We Tend to Forget
- The Pieces of Your Life Must Fit Together
- You’ll Work Harder If You Feel Wanted
- Do You Work in a Sick Building?
- Show You Care, Even When It’s Hard To
- Electric Brushing Is Easier, But Not Much Different
- Avoid Roller-Coaster Emotions
- We Are All Much More Alike Than Different
- Value Practical Knowledge
- Guilt Is Bad for You
- The Relationship Test: Are You Lonely?
- Be Careful with Botox
- Limit Your Interest in the Past
- Don’t Talk to Yourself
- Money Can’t Buy Happiness
- Pay Attention to Your Dreams
- Choose Not to Worry
- A Relationship Is Built on a Foundation of Support
- Limit Your Piercings
- Seek Coherence and Congruence
- Where You Live Matters
- Don’t Let Others Set Your Goals
- See the Risk in Doing Nothing
- Your History Strengthens Your Future
- We Look Inward to See How People Feel About Us
- Keep Variety in Mind When Exercising
- Get Your Reality from Reality
- It Will Get Worse Before It Gets Better
November
- Vote
- Connect, See You’re Capable, and Know You Count
- You Need to Know What You Are Looking For
- The Most Treatment Is Not the Best Treatment
- Life Gets Easier
- Avoid the Comparison Game
- Cherish Animals
- The Benefits of Alcohol Must Be Weighed Against the Risks
- Own What You Do
- Beware of Second Opinions
- Be Realistic About Yourself
- Adjustments Never End
- Recognize the Difference Between Caution and Fear
- You’ll Forget the Disagreement but Remember the Disagreeing
- Don’t Forget Packaging
- Vitamin Levels Do Not Have to Be Constant
- Learn to Lead Yourself
- Don’t Let the Holidays Ruin Your Health
- Always Think About What’s Next
- You Are Never Too Old to Find Love
- Stretch Out and Fly Right
- Foundations Shift, but Life Stands
- Closeness Cannot Be Measured on a Map
- Believe You Can
- Hug for Health
- Exercise for Your Mind
- You Are Complete by Yourself
- Be Honest for Your Future
- Find Your Own Path
- Why Not Be Optimistic?
December
- Your Life Has Purpose and Meaning
- Can I Do It? Ask Yourself
- Pets Are Healthy
- Have Faith, but Don’t Forget Reality
- Be Careful What You Ask For
- Take Action
- Health Is About Life
- The Search for Perfection Is Endless
- Win Your Own Respect First
- Think As If Others Can Read Your Mind
- Don’t Drown Yourself in Water
- Relationships Are Like Modern Art
- Keep Your Goals Where You Can See Them
- Make Health a Convenience
- Don’t Settle
- People Who Have It Right Work Harder to Make It Better
- What Is the Point?
- It’s Not Easy, Even If It Looks It
- Hope Springs Internal
- Completely Healthy Is Rare
- We Seek Warmth
- Don’t Run in the Wrong Direction Just Because You’re Near the Finish Line
- Do It Now
- Happiness Is Not an Accident
- Master Your Fears
- Nice People Don’t Finish Last
- Your Goals Must Engage All of You
- See the Horizon, and Watch Your Step
- Follow Through for You
- Only You Can Say If This Is a World You Can Succeed In
- There’s No Deadline for Your Dreams
The Almanack of Naval Ravikant (Eric Jorgenson)
Wealth
Building Wealth
- Understand How Wealth Is Created
- Find and Build Specific Knowledge
- Play Long-Term Games with Long-Term People
- Take on Accountability
- Build or Buy Equity in a Business
- Find a Position of Leverage
- Get Paid for Your Judgment
- Prioritize and Focus
- Find Work That Feels Like Play
- How to Get Lucky
- Be Patient
Building Judgment
- Judgment
- How to Think Clearly
- Shed Your Identity to See Reality
- Learn the Skills of Decision-Making
- Collect Mental Models
- Learn to Love to Read
Happiness
Learning Happiness
- Happiness Is Learned
- Happiness Is a Choice
- Happiness Requires Presence
- Happiness Requires Peace
- Every Desire Is a Chosen Unhappiness
- Success Does Not Earn Happiness
- Envy Is the Enemy of Happiness
- Happiness Is Built by Habits
- Find Happiness in Acceptance
Saving Yourself
- Choosing to Be Yourself
- Choosing to Care for Yourself
- Meditation + Mental Strength
- Choosing to Build Yourself
- Choosing to Grow Yourself
- Choosing to Free Yourself
Philosophy
- The Meanings of Life
- Live by Your Values
- Rational Buddhism
- The Present Is All We Have
The Diary of a CEO (Steven Bartlett)
The Self
- Fill your five buckets in the right order
- To master it, you must create an obligation to teach it
- You must never disagree
- You do not get to choose what you believe
- You must lean in to bizarre behaviour
- Ask, don’t tell - the question/behaviour effect
- Never compromise your self-story
- Never fight a bad habit
- Always prioritise your first foundation
The Story
- Useless absurdity will define you more than useful practicalities
- Avoid wallpaper at all costs
- You must piss people off
- Shoot your psychological moonshots first
- Friction can create value
- The frame matters more than the picture
- Use Goldilocks to your advantage
- Let them try and they will buy
- Fight for the first five seconds
The Philosophy
- You must sweat the small stuff
- A small miss now creates a big miss later
- You must out-fail the competition
- You must become a Plan-A thinker
- Don’t be an ostrich
- You must make pressure your privilege
- The power of negative manifestation
- Your skills are worthless, but your context is valuable
- The discipline equation: death, time and discipline!
The Team
- Ask who not how
- Create a cult mentality
- The three bars for building great teams
- Leverage the power of progress
- You must be an inconsistent leader
- Learning never ends
Think and Grow Rich (Napoleon Hill)
- The Power of Thought
- Desire: The Starting Point of All Achievement
- Faith: Visualizing and Believing in the Attainment of Desire
- Autosuggestion: The Medium for Influencing the Subconscious Mind
- Specialized Knowledge: Personal Experiences or Observations
- Imagination: The Workshop of the Mind
- Organized Planning: The Crystallization of Desire Into Action
- Decision: The Mastery of Procrastination
- Persistence: The Sustained Effort Necessary to Induce Faith
- Power of the Master Mind: The Driving Force
- The Mystery of Sex Transmutation
- The Subconscious Mind: The Connecting Link
- The Brain: A Broadcasting and Receiving Station for Thought
- The Sixth Sense: The Door to the Temple of Wisdom
- How to Outwit the Six Ghosts of Fear (Clearing the Brain for Riches)
- The Devil’s Workshop (The Seventh Basic Evil)