Intrenion

Books as Frameworks: Mixed Advice

Table of Contents

Not Taught (Jim Keenan)

  1. Reach
  2. Brand You
  3. Create Content
  4. Change
  5. Have the Balls to Make It Happen
  6. Think
  7. Learn How to Sell
  8. Screw Your Degree
  9. Experience versus Expertise
  10. Time versus Results
  11. Don’t Be Boring
  12. Have Fun. Be Happy
  13. Deliberate Learning
  14. Bonus Skill: Be the Best You Can Be
  15. WTF, Now What?

Principles (Ray Dalio)

Life Principles

  1. Embrace Reality and Deal with It
  2. Use the 5-Step Process to Get What You Want Out of Life
  3. Be Radically Open-Minded
  4. Understand That People Are Wired Very Differently
  5. Learn How to Make Decisions Effectively

Work Principles

To Get the Culture Right

  1. Trust In Radical Truth and Radical Transparency
  2. Cultivate Meaningful Work and Meaningful Relationships
  3. Create a Culture In Which It Is Okay to Make Mistakes and Unacceptable Not to Learn from Them
  4. Get and Stay In Sync
  5. Believability Weight Your Decision Making
  6. Recognize How to Get Beyond Disagreements

To Get the People Right

  1. Remember That the WHO Is More Important than the WHAT
  2. Hire Right, Because the Penalties for Hiring Wrong Are Huge
  3. Constantly Train, Test, Evaluate, and Sort People

To Build and Evolve Your Machine

  1. Manage as Someone Operating a Machine to Achieve a Goal
  2. Perceive and Don’t Tolerate Problems
  3. Diagnose Problems to Get at Their Root Causes
  4. Design Improvements to Your Machine to Get Around Your Problems
  5. Do What You Set Out to Do
  6. Use Tools and Protocols to Shape How Work Is Done
  7. And for Heaven’s Sake, Don’t Overlook Governance!

Simple Secrets for Becoming Healthy, Wealthy, and Wise (David Niven)

January

  1. Motivation Beats Everything
  2. Be Happy to Succeed
  3. Give Yourself Time
  4. Creativity Comes from Within
  5. The Mundane Is Heroic
  6. Never Give Up
  7. See Possibilities Where Others See Obstacles
  8. The Quest for a Perfect Body Is Doomed
  9. Don’t Let Your First Idea Be Your Only Idea
  10. What You Do Matters
  11. There Are Second Chances
  12. Wonder
  13. Volunteer for Yourself
  14. Use a Plan, Not a Piecemeal Approach
  15. You Have Nothing to Envy in Your Partner
  16. Resist the Urge to Be Average
  17. Too Much of a Good Thing Is Too Much
  18. It’s Never Just One Thing
  19. Change Is Possible, Not Easy
  20. Know Your Health
  21. It’s Not How Hard You Try
  22. You Can’t Force Yourself to Like Broccoli
  23. The Past Is Not the Future
  24. Competence Starts with Feeling Competent
  25. We’re Too Good at Imagining the Worst-Case Scenario
  26. Set Rules for Conflict in Your Relationship
  27. Give Yourself the Best Chance to Eat Well
  28. You Are Never Too Old to Improve Your Habits
  29. A Victory at All Costs Is Not a Victory
  30. You Have to Have Art
  31. Accomplish Something Every Day

February

  1. You Must Approve of Yourself
  2. Healthy Living Is an Attitude
  3. Write Down the Directions
  4. It’s the Little Things That Matter the Most
  5. Couch Time Affects Body and Mind
  6. Winners Are Made, Not Born
  7. See the Love Around You
  8. The Cold Doesn’t Give You a Cold
  9. Anticipate Irrationality
  10. Attitude Triumphs over Outcome
  11. The Best Defense Is to Listen
  12. Always Being Right Is Wrong for Your Health
  13. How We See the World Is More Important Than How the World Is
  14. Express Your Love
  15. Eat Your Spinach
  16. Don’t Be Bound by Tradition
  17. Seek Input from Your Opposites
  18. Avoid Tanning Beds
  19. Know What Makes You Happy and What Makes You Sad
  20. Wipe, Don’t Blow
  21. Do Things in Order
  22. Avoid Internet Takeover
  23. You Can Worry Your Health Away
  24. Seek Harmony in Your Life
  25. Take Small Victories
  26. There’s Never Been a Better Time

March

  1. Think in Concrete Terms
  2. Slow Music for Dinner
  3. A Relationship Requires Two Equals
  4. Cleaning Isn’t Clean
  5. Get Experience Any Way You Can
  6. Cultivate a Common Interest
  7. Health Is Mental and Physical
  8. Embrace Challenges
  9. Look Up, Literally
  10. Tell Your Family Story
  11. Self-Motivation Works Once
  12. There Are No Mind Readers
  13. Do What You Say You Are Going to Do
  14. Put Stuff in Its Place
  15. History Isn’t Everything
  16. There’s No Point to Putting on a Show
  17. Speak Slowly
  18. Pursue What You Need Forever, Not What You Want Today
  19. Don’t Buy the Fountain of Youth
  20. Make Your Mark on the Next Generation
  21. Do One Thing at a Time
  22. Remember Who You Are and Where You Are
  23. Relationships Are Not Random
  24. Emergencies Can’t Wait
  25. Treat the Disease, Not the Symptom
  26. Help the Next Person Who Needs Some Minor Assistance
  27. Negotiate with Confidence, or Don’t
  28. Your Surroundings Will Affect Your Health

April

  1. Overcome the Culture of Failure
  2. Play the Odds
  3. Decide Whether You Want to Win or Be Happy
  4. Travel the Stable Road
  5. Mold Is Everywhere - Relax
  6. The Most Time Is Not the Best Time
  7. The Past Is Not the Future
  8. Look on the Bright Side
  9. Avoid Generational Competition
  10. Drink Less
  11. Try Something New
  12. Remember the Task, Forget the Rankings
  13. Find a Community That Fits Your Family
  14. Turn Off the TV
  15. Honor Your Spiritual Beliefs
  16. Drink Grape Juice
  17. Get a Good Night’s Sleep
  18. Drive Safely When It’s Safe
  19. Seek a Tall Plateau, Not the Peak
  20. A Sense of Humor Helps
  21. Avoid the Second-Guess Paralysis
  22. Eat Less, but Eat Often
  23. See Around Career Roadblocks
  24. Be Engaged to Reality
  25. You Don’t Have to Get Straight A’s Anymore
  26. Write Down Your Thoughts
  27. Fitness Is Free
  28. There’s No Need to Hurry
  29. Notice Patterns

May

  1. Get Out of the Car
  2. It’s Always a Choice
  3. It’s Less What Happened Than What Happened Next
  4. Forgiveness Helps You Heal
  5. There Is Plenty of Time
  6. Do Not Go to War with Bacteria
  7. Be Open
  8. Home Means More Than Work to Your Health
  9. Balance Depends on Which Way You Lean
  10. Buy Fun, Not Stuff
  11. Happy Looks for Happy
  12. Ask Whether a Medicine Is Right for You
  13. Beware of Fairy Tales
  14. Lessons Can’t Threaten
  15. Stay in Control
  16. Use the Stairs
  17. The Future Matters More Than the Past
  18. Listen to Your Favorite Music
  19. Separate Hype from Substance
  20. It Starts and Ends with You
  21. See the Big Picture
  22. Make Your Work a Calling
  23. Stretch
  24. You Need to Know More Than Just How Talented You Are
  25. Ask Where Your Water Comes From
  26. You Don’t Have to See Eye to Eye on Everything
  27. Have a Tomato Any Way You Like
  28. Volunteer to Achieve
  29. It Doesn’t Matter Who Earns the Money

June

  1. Self-Protection Prevents Self-Reflection
  2. Ambivalence Is a Negative
  3. Let Your Stress Out
  4. Tomorrow Will Be a Better Day (but How Exactly?)
  5. There’s No Better Time to Be Sick
  6. A Relationship Starts with Yourself
  7. Breathe Right
  8. Use Your Own Self-Interest
  9. Doing Nothing Is Rarely a Solution
  10. Accept Yourself - Unconditionally
  11. Second-Hand Smoke Is Optional
  12. Listening Is More Than Not Talking
  13. You’ll Get Knocked Down and Then Get Back Up
  14. Keep Your Fears in Line
  15. Television and Eating Should Not Go Together
  16. Think of Your Own Ideal
  17. Communicate on Your Listeners’ Terms
  18. Talk to Your Pharmacist
  19. Let Go of the Burden of Pain
  20. Boredom Is the Enemy
  21. Share Housework
  22. Role Models Are Not One Size Fits All
  23. The Mirror Will Be Kinder
  24. Common Chores Can Be Dangerous
  25. Foundations Are Created in the Beginning
  26. Get Away from It All
  27. Study Your Sports Drink
  28. Make Change Count

July

  1. The Best Life Needs No Trophy
  2. Control Your Health
  3. Transitions Can Be Both Happy and Sad
  4. Stay Safe in the Sun
  5. Leadership Is Contagious
  6. Don’t Romanticize the Past
  7. Laughter Really Is Medicine
  8. View Your Life As a Choice
  9. Life Is Not a Zero-Sum Game
  10. Don’t Confuse Stuff with Success
  11. Respond to Stress
  12. Have an Orange
  13. Share the Praise and Share in the Blame
  14. Embrace Work - It May Have to Last Forever
  15. Don’t Gamble Your Future
  16. Combinations Matter
  17. Resolve to Pursue Resolution
  18. Limit Your Exposure to Pesticides
  19. Even in a Relationship, You Are Still an Individual
  20. Want Support? Deserve It
  21. Make “Should” and “Want” the Same Thing
  22. The Fun Is Not Over
  23. Build Your Energy Level Gradually
  24. Meaningful Commitment Is Mutual Commitment
  25. You Will Give Up Faster If You’re Not in Control
  26. Anything Beats Boredom
  27. Most People Are Sensitive to Whitening Teeth
  28. Like the Way You Look
  29. Remember, Ginkgo Biloba Won’t Help You Remember
  30. Develop a Healthy Calm
  31. Learn from Losses

August

  1. See the Beauty Around You
  2. Whet Your Appetite for Success
  3. Write Through Pain
  4. To Find a Better Way, Look Where You’ve Been
  5. Tell Clean Jokes
  6. Turn Off the TV
  7. Don’t Bring Your Job Home with You
  8. Practice Maintenance for Life
  9. Don’t Pack Like a Mule
  10. Look for Value
  11. Never Trade Your Morals for Your Goals
  12. Don’t Let Irritation Be Louder Than Joy
  13. Sleep Well
  14. Recognize the Value of Shared Values
  15. Get Your Motivation Where You Can Find It
  16. Have Some Tea with Your Remodeling
  17. We Assume Similar Preferences
  18. Memories Are Not Lost
  19. Nobody Wins Without a Loser
  20. If You’re Not Sure, Guess Positively
  21. Understand What You’re Looking For
  22. See Your Goals
  23. Short-Term Stress Is Healthy
  24. Prepare for Milestones
  25. Your Health Isn’t Just About You
  26. Don’t Want Everything
  27. Rest Up - This Is Going to Take Some Effort
  28. Your Lives Must Fit Together
  29. Find a Physician You Like
  30. Don’t Let Secrets Eat You Up
  31. Remember the Difference Between You and Everybody Else

September

  1. Be an Expert
  2. Root for the Home Team
  3. The Future Can Be Brighter Than the Past
  4. Religion Can Help Ease Your Burden
  5. Regrets Hold Us Back
  6. Your Teeth Are More Than Something to Chew On
  7. Define What You Need
  8. You Can’t Be Persistent Without Perspective
  9. You’ll Need Some Relationship Friends
  10. Your Goals Are a Living Thing
  11. Limit Yourself to Thinking About One Subject As You Go to Sleep
  12. Express Yourself in What You Do
  13. Hostility Hurts You
  14. Changing Jobs Doesn’t Change You
  15. Share What You Know
  16. Home Is Where Accidents Happen
  17. Take Off Your Blinders
  18. Smell Healthy
  19. Music Can Bring Us Together
  20. You Are Not in This Alone
  21. Value the Multiple Uses of Aspirin
  22. Make Your Decisions for Positive Reasons
  23. Think About Who You Ought to Be
  24. Noise Matters
  25. Work on Your Own Terms
  26. Never Let Faults Stand for the Whole
  27. Care

October

  1. If You Don’t Believe, No One Else Will
  2. Don’t Let Negativity Build
  3. See a New Way
  4. Remember the Drugs We Tend to Forget
  5. The Pieces of Your Life Must Fit Together
  6. You’ll Work Harder If You Feel Wanted
  7. Do You Work in a Sick Building?
  8. Show You Care, Even When It’s Hard To
  9. Electric Brushing Is Easier, But Not Much Different
  10. Avoid Roller-Coaster Emotions
  11. We Are All Much More Alike Than Different
  12. Value Practical Knowledge
  13. Guilt Is Bad for You
  14. The Relationship Test: Are You Lonely?
  15. Be Careful with Botox
  16. Limit Your Interest in the Past
  17. Don’t Talk to Yourself
  18. Money Can’t Buy Happiness
  19. Pay Attention to Your Dreams
  20. Choose Not to Worry
  21. A Relationship Is Built on a Foundation of Support
  22. Limit Your Piercings
  23. Seek Coherence and Congruence
  24. Where You Live Matters
  25. Don’t Let Others Set Your Goals
  26. See the Risk in Doing Nothing
  27. Your History Strengthens Your Future
  28. We Look Inward to See How People Feel About Us
  29. Keep Variety in Mind When Exercising
  30. Get Your Reality from Reality
  31. It Will Get Worse Before It Gets Better

November

  1. Vote
  2. Connect, See You’re Capable, and Know You Count
  3. You Need to Know What You Are Looking For
  4. The Most Treatment Is Not the Best Treatment
  5. Life Gets Easier
  6. Avoid the Comparison Game
  7. Cherish Animals
  8. The Benefits of Alcohol Must Be Weighed Against the Risks
  9. Own What You Do
  10. Beware of Second Opinions
  11. Be Realistic About Yourself
  12. Adjustments Never End
  13. Recognize the Difference Between Caution and Fear
  14. You’ll Forget the Disagreement but Remember the Disagreeing
  15. Don’t Forget Packaging
  16. Vitamin Levels Do Not Have to Be Constant
  17. Learn to Lead Yourself
  18. Don’t Let the Holidays Ruin Your Health
  19. Always Think About What’s Next
  20. You Are Never Too Old to Find Love
  21. Stretch Out and Fly Right
  22. Foundations Shift, but Life Stands
  23. Closeness Cannot Be Measured on a Map
  24. Believe You Can
  25. Hug for Health
  26. Exercise for Your Mind
  27. You Are Complete by Yourself
  28. Be Honest for Your Future
  29. Find Your Own Path
  30. Why Not Be Optimistic?

December

  1. Your Life Has Purpose and Meaning
  2. Can I Do It? Ask Yourself
  3. Pets Are Healthy
  4. Have Faith, but Don’t Forget Reality
  5. Be Careful What You Ask For
  6. Take Action
  7. Health Is About Life
  8. The Search for Perfection Is Endless
  9. Win Your Own Respect First
  10. Think As If Others Can Read Your Mind
  11. Don’t Drown Yourself in Water
  12. Relationships Are Like Modern Art
  13. Keep Your Goals Where You Can See Them
  14. Make Health a Convenience
  15. Don’t Settle
  16. People Who Have It Right Work Harder to Make It Better
  17. What Is the Point?
  18. It’s Not Easy, Even If It Looks It
  19. Hope Springs Internal
  20. Completely Healthy Is Rare
  21. We Seek Warmth
  22. Don’t Run in the Wrong Direction Just Because You’re Near the Finish Line
  23. Do It Now
  24. Happiness Is Not an Accident
  25. Master Your Fears
  26. Nice People Don’t Finish Last
  27. Your Goals Must Engage All of You
  28. See the Horizon, and Watch Your Step
  29. Follow Through for You
  30. Only You Can Say If This Is a World You Can Succeed In
  31. There’s No Deadline for Your Dreams

The Almanack of Naval Ravikant (Eric Jorgenson)

Wealth

Building Wealth

  1. Understand How Wealth Is Created
  2. Find and Build Specific Knowledge
  3. Play Long-Term Games with Long-Term People
  4. Take on Accountability
  5. Build or Buy Equity in a Business
  6. Find a Position of Leverage
  7. Get Paid for Your Judgment
  8. Prioritize and Focus
  9. Find Work That Feels Like Play
  10. How to Get Lucky
  11. Be Patient

Building Judgment

  1. Judgment
  2. How to Think Clearly
  3. Shed Your Identity to See Reality
  4. Learn the Skills of Decision-Making
  5. Collect Mental Models
  6. Learn to Love to Read

Happiness

Learning Happiness

  1. Happiness Is Learned
  2. Happiness Is a Choice
  3. Happiness Requires Presence
  4. Happiness Requires Peace
  5. Every Desire Is a Chosen Unhappiness
  6. Success Does Not Earn Happiness
  7. Envy Is the Enemy of Happiness
  8. Happiness Is Built by Habits
  9. Find Happiness in Acceptance

Saving Yourself

  1. Choosing to Be Yourself
  2. Choosing to Care for Yourself
  3. Meditation + Mental Strength
  4. Choosing to Build Yourself
  5. Choosing to Grow Yourself
  6. Choosing to Free Yourself

Philosophy

  1. The Meanings of Life
  2. Live by Your Values
  3. Rational Buddhism
  4. The Present Is All We Have

The Diary of a CEO (Steven Bartlett)

The Self

  1. Fill your five buckets in the right order
  2. To master it, you must create an obligation to teach it
  3. You must never disagree
  4. You do not get to choose what you believe
  5. You must lean in to bizarre behaviour
  6. Ask, don’t tell - the question/behaviour effect
  7. Never compromise your self-story
  8. Never fight a bad habit
  9. Always prioritise your first foundation

The Story

  1. Useless absurdity will define you more than useful practicalities
  2. Avoid wallpaper at all costs
  3. You must piss people off
  4. Shoot your psychological moonshots first
  5. Friction can create value
  6. The frame matters more than the picture
  7. Use Goldilocks to your advantage
  8. Let them try and they will buy
  9. Fight for the first five seconds

The Philosophy

  1. You must sweat the small stuff
  2. A small miss now creates a big miss later
  3. You must out-fail the competition
  4. You must become a Plan-A thinker
  5. Don’t be an ostrich
  6. You must make pressure your privilege
  7. The power of negative manifestation
  8. Your skills are worthless, but your context is valuable
  9. The discipline equation: death, time and discipline!

The Team

  1. Ask who not how
  2. Create a cult mentality
  3. The three bars for building great teams
  4. Leverage the power of progress
  5. You must be an inconsistent leader
  6. Learning never ends

Think and Grow Rich (Napoleon Hill)

  1. The Power of Thought
  2. Desire: The Starting Point of All Achievement
  3. Faith: Visualizing and Believing in the Attainment of Desire
  4. Autosuggestion: The Medium for Influencing the Subconscious Mind
  5. Specialized Knowledge: Personal Experiences or Observations
  6. Imagination: The Workshop of the Mind
  7. Organized Planning: The Crystallization of Desire Into Action
  8. Decision: The Mastery of Procrastination
  9. Persistence: The Sustained Effort Necessary to Induce Faith
  10. Power of the Master Mind: The Driving Force
  11. The Mystery of Sex Transmutation
  12. The Subconscious Mind: The Connecting Link
  13. The Brain: A Broadcasting and Receiving Station for Thought
  14. The Sixth Sense: The Door to the Temple of Wisdom
  15. How to Outwit the Six Ghosts of Fear (Clearing the Brain for Riches)
  16. The Devil’s Workshop (The Seventh Basic Evil)